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I find most men want a woman whose background is similar to theirs or better. Because salaries and jobs in the South can be static, many people won't see the same upward progression as folks like me who moved to larger cities before settling back home for their career. What was once considered a rite of passage and a sign of a successful relationship up north is actually a big no-no down south.
Things are different below the Mason-Dixon, apparently.
While dating in any city has its own set of complications (what up, Midwest?
Tradition has long allowed wives to live in luxury while looking the other way. Not only does everyone know each other, everyone's a third or fourth cousin. Well, friends, I've had a distant relative pursue me. While every guy may be interested in your background, Southern men take it to another level entirely.
So if you're like me and want to find a suitable mate, it can make things tricky especially if a guy isn't upfront with you.2. If I had a dollar for every bad date that I've run into later that prompted awkward small talk, I'd probably be able to buy a Super Size combo from Mc Donald's. (Talk about horrifying.) When in doubt, call your grandmother. They'll want to know things like how your family celebrates holidays, what type of neighborhood you grew up in, if your parents went to college—all in the first conversation!